I am not going to try to figure out why someone would want this. It's a Hug Me Pillow. You can check it out for yourself here.
I like snuggling, but this creeps me out!
I
began packing up Christmas 2008 this morning and realized how much I
cherish every ornament on our family tree and the moments and people
that they represent. I wondered...what will my family look like next
year? What does 2009 have in store for us? All I can do is step into
the new year with hope and confidence that no matter what lies ahead,
our family (and yours) will be blessed beyond belief.
How often do you compliment people or give positive feedback? Probably not often enough. I know it is something I need to work on. Sometimes I have the thought but I don't always verbalize it. This is becoming more of a priority for me especially after yesterday as I witnessed the aftermath of two guy friends of mine who had received compliments that bolstered them to a higher level of feeling valued.
Guy #1 is a musician in our band and I overheard him say that when people positively compliment his music, it makes him feel good about what he is doing. As a result, his soul was fueled.
Guy #2 is one of the few MALE workers in Journeyland, our preschool ministry. Apparently a family had sent an email to church leadership, complimenting Guy#2 and his gift for working with children and the positive impact he has had on their child. He hesitated to repeat this story because he didn't want to come across as having a 'big head'. But it made him feel good about what he is doing. And guess what? It was fuel for his soul.
I wonder why people are so hesitant these days to give a compliment to others, even if it is second hand information. I believe one reason is because of their own insecurities. Or maybe they feel as though they are feeding an ego instead of fueling a soul. We are not responsible for what people do with the compliments we give them. We should give them away freely with the expectation that our words are helping build them up.
During this season of giving, why not give away the gift of kind words. I would like to present a challenge to us all: make an effort to give away three compliments every day this week. Be sincere. Be specific. Be intentional. See how many souls you can fuel.
Allison: Mom, I'm bored.
Me: You could be studying for the SAT.
Allison: Mom, I'm twelve. I won't take it for four more years!
Me: Well it's never too early to get started!
A Christmas gift idea for those who have everything...
Jay Knotts did some breaking down of Psalm 23 this past Sunday at TrueNorth Church during the I AM series. "The Lord is my shepherd" translates in my simple mind as "The Lord is my leader."
Be on the lookout for him this Sunday. Hopefully he will have a name by then!